SEX IS OVERRATED? YAY OR NAY

     I've often noticed some guys making such degrading insinuations as all girls are attracted to money and all girls who are no longer virgins do not reserve the right to say 'NO' to sex with their boyfriends.

     First, NO reasonable girl will date you because of how deep your pockets are. If you have been meeting materialistic girls, chances are that you are materialistic and go for the glitter instead of the real woman inside.

     Real ladies know that they have hands to earn a living for themselves. So, they DO NOT have to perch on a guy for money. They also know that relationships are give and take. We all know that love usually expresses itself by giving, so both the lady and man give to each other. When you as a guy insinuate that you can get any girl because you feel you've got deep pockets, you're simply telling the world that you have serious issues.

     Second, a girl reserves as much right as a guy to say NO to sex at whatever point in her life, the total number of past sexual partners notwithstanding. There are different reasons a girl might have lost her virginity: youthful exuberance, rape, past wrong choice or even as a conscious decision. 

     Whatever it is, if your girlfriend says she doesn’t want a sexual relationship, you either go with her decision or leave. Because if you think she doesn’t have the right to refuse premarital sex, then you have another think coming. You should learn to respect a lady's decision, just like she should learn to respect yours and avoid your Don’ts.

     Relationships are much more than sex and money. always remember that if your idea of a good relationship revolves around just money and sex, that's your prerogative. But please don't try to generalize or force it down others' throats.